Recently a gay man announced that he had become a new dad for the first time via a surrogate mother.
I was shocked beyond words because this man wanted a baby but didn’t want anything to do with the baby’s mother.But still he had to use a woman’s ovum to get an embryo and later implant it in the surrogate mother.The surrogate mother delivered the baby to him,he is going to solely raise the baby.
When I read this story, I felt sorry for the newborn baby who will grow up without a mother.
I later on went to this man’s social media pages and I found many photos of his mother.He really adores his beautiful mother but he doesn’t want his son to have a mother.
Thinking more of gays and lesbians, I loathe the fact that they dare to adopt babies, being that they will teach their children to follow their ungodly ways.But in this circumstances, better an adopted child who will when he grows up can look for his parents/roots if he wants, but the former surrogate children will suffer from identity crisis.
However, the best adoption is when one is adopted by a heterosexual couple,in that the child has a father figure (male), and a mother figure (female).
Mothers matter because God made it that way.In the Bible you will find that God noticed that the first man- Adam was alone, so he created the first woman-Eve and brought her to him, to keep him company and to help him.He later on told them to multiply and fill the earth.
And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.
Adam and Eve gave birth to Cain,Abel and Seth.These are our forefathers.
Later on in the Bible,we find that whenever a man laid with a woman,a baby was conceived and later born.
Mothers matter because it is natural, just the same way that it’s natural to want to know one’s father.
We can always choose our spouses but we cannot chose their parents.
Your mother is your mother whether she is loving or not, beautiful or not,rich or not, educated or not,wise or not.
Same to your father;
Your father is your father whether he is loving or not, handsome or not,rich or not, educated or not,wise or not.
Every body has a right to know their mothers.
Mothers are important.
Finally, to the ladies who are waiting to get married but it’s taking long, please remember that fathers matter too.Do not just go to get a sperm from the sperm bank to make a baby.The baby will have identity crisis because they will never know their fathers or roots.Instead, you can adopt a child from a children’s home.Be faithful and the Lord will be faithful.One day,He will remember you.